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3 Critical Dating Tips To Attract & Keep A Great Guy

OK, so when I say ‘tips' I'm talking about what attracts a guy to want to start dating and stay with you in a long term relationship.
You don't have to look like Jennifer Lopez to be attractive to men. Read on to see how these 3 tips could help you take a second look at your beliefs about men and what attracts them for the long haul

No. 1 Men do not fall in love when they have sex.

It certainly took me a long to accept this but trust me this really is the ultimate truth!

If there's just one thing I'd love for you to get from this article it's this:

Men do not fall in love when they have sex

There is a massive difference between men and women when it comes to physical attraction and intimacy. In fact, we barely see eye to eye at all. You aren't going to love everything I say in this next bit but I'm telling you now, if you don't take it on as truth, you will continue to see heartache and tough times. On the contrary, accepting this can make the road ahead a million times easier.

So let's take some time to look at physical attraction since that is really where it all begins. Unless you are trying to turn your best mate into your boyfriend, chances are you don't know enough about the man and he doesn't know enough about you to have much more than the physical at the start.

And men are very dominated by this in general. There are a few men out there that I have met who seem to be immune to beauty and sexual enticement from women but most are very stimulated by this visually and their physical urges to have sex with you.

The fact of the matter is that men can have sex without wanting a relationship or feeling the urge to ever speak to you again for that matter.
So the best advice I can give you is don't sleep with a man early on in the relationship if you want to be sure of securing a long term partnership with him.

No. 2 Be feminine.
As I've said, men are predominantly visual and can't help being attracted to women with a feminine air about them. They're wired to interpret a woman's signs of health and youth as an indicator that she'd be a good baby maker...even if that's not what he wants anymore.
Luckily though, you are in control of the way you look. So if you're unhappy with your weight, skin or clothes commit to doing what you know you need to feel good about yourself. When you're confident with the way you look, you'll find men are naturally attracted to you.
Dress to make the best of your figure, bring out your confident feminine side and enjoy being a woman, you may surprise yourself with how good it feels and remember...

If you want a masculine man, he's most likely to want
a feminine woman!

If you want to learn more about finding your inner confidence, go here and take a look at a great book by Paul McKenna ‘Instant Confidence' - It helped me even though I never thought I had a problem with confidence!

No. 3 Smile, smile and smile some more!
It sounds obvious, but we're attracted to people who are attracted to us, and although we're often not conscious of the subtle signs going on around us it can help to be aware, at some level at least, that you're more attractive when you're happy, smiling, making eye contact and being interested in the other person. So the next time you like the look of a guy, smile and make it easy for him to talk to you, you never know where it might lead!