"Finally: Dating Advice That Is Guaranteed To Show You How To Meet And Keep A REAL Man!"

Imagine It … Dating Advice
That Guarantees You:

No More Regrets, No More Losing The Guy You Really Want And No More Fears And Excuses Stopping You Having
The Love You Deserve…

Welcome,

Each month I’ll take you step by step with dating advice that will reveal EVERYTHING you must know about men, dating and relationships. I remove all the guesswork and frustration…and guarantee to support you in making this the year you meet and KEEP a great man!

 

Do you know the number one problem facing single women today?

How to meet and KEEP a great guy…

The first thing I want to let you know is that I’ve been there.

...I know what it's like to meet a great guy, be convinced it’s going well, hear him saying all the right things, only to suddenly feel he’s losing interest and becoming distant.

...I know how painful it is to hear things like, “It’s just all getting a little heavy and I don’t feel ready for this” shortly after you’ve had sex and then you get that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach when you realise the heartache is about to unfold (again!)

...I know how frustrating it is not to know where you went wrong. Why did he say all those things about you being together and then just change his mind in a moment? You spend all day replaying it over and over in your mind looking for clues. You say to yourself “If only I could understand why he didn’t want to be with me I could change”

Then when you can’t find anything wrong, you blame him and get angry with men in general. “What the hell do they want anyway, men are all commitment phoebes and just want sex”

Sound familiar?

...I know how tiring it can feel just trying to find a great guy. Where are all the good men anyway?

And when you find one you just want to cut out the game playing and have him fall in love with you instantly for who you are, warts and all.

...I know how lonely it is on your own at times and to wonder if you're ever going to meet the right one.

I know what it’s like to feel this way and that’s why, when I finally discovered the secret to attracting and keeping an amazing man, I knew I wanted to share my dating advice and help others avoid the years of unnecessary heartache I had experienced.

It’s the reason I spent months researching men, dating and relationships. I wanted to create an easy to follow programme that gives you everything you need to know stage by stage so that you can create the love life you’ve always wanted.

"Now I Want To Give You The Exclusive
Opportunity To Learn How To Create The
Love Life You’ve Always Wanted"

Before we go any further, I want to tell you the story of how this came about.

Let’s rewind the clock back to 2003.

I was 35 and had been in quite a few relationships with men with the longest being just over 8 years. I was coming out of a 2.5 year relationship with a guy I’d met online. We’d be living together for most of that time and the first year had been fantastic. We’d be on so many holidays and trips, going out every weekend, enjoying just being together. I really thought I’d met “The One”.

Then things seemed to change out of nowhere. He became distant, we hardly had sex any more, and he wouldn’t talk about anything to do with ‘us’ and I was left hurt, confused and completely devastated. I cried most days for months knowing deep inside that the relationship was over but being unwilling to let it go.

Eventually I found out he’d been having an affair but I gave him another chance to put things right. Time passed but nothing really changed. I continued to cry every day, he became more distant and eventually I realised I could never trust him again and I must find the courage and strength to leave.

A few months later when the dust had settled and I was back in my own house I started looking for more fulfilment and meaning in my life. I became involved with a charity in India taking care of street children and in particular with one of their shelters. I set about raising enough money so they could open another shelter for girls. I then sold my business in the UK, rented out my house and spent the next 3 years working voluntarily out there.

It was an amazing time being with these children. The feeling of giving and sharing love completely with them is something money can’t buy and though they have very little materially, they have given me so much personally and I still keep in touch and find it keeps me grounded in the ‘real’ world.

On my return to the UK life was a different challenge altogether. Realising I was the only one responsible and able to make the changes necessary to live the life I wanted, I took control, re-trained as a coach and have never looked back since.

However, my love life was still not what it should be. I’d had a string of short-term boyfriends and a lot of heartache to match. I’d spent years on online dating websites, meeting men, going to speed dating events and it just wasn’t working. Somehow deep inside I knew there must be something I was doing wrong, surely it can’t all be their fault, but I really had no idea where to start to find the answers, and no one offering me the right advice.

So after a final few painful experiences with men, I knew I had to take a good hard look at what I was doing, throw out the OLD things that were making them run for the hills and learn a new way of attracting and keeping a man that would WORK!

 

Lesson Number 1: Stop Repeating Past Mistakes

What was it I was doing that seemed to have men breaking up with me? I really wanted to know but knew they’d not give me an honest answer if I asked them directly (no one ever really does). My old ways of finding a guy online, emailing, chatting a few times on the phone and then meeting up just wasn’t working. My hopes would be raised every time and if there did turn out to be a connection I just had no idea how long it would last. In my quest to have him like (and deep down ‘love’ me), I’d often have sex too quickly, thinking that this would draw him closer to me. HUGE MISTAKE! I didn’t feel ‘needy’ but looking back, the things I was doing must have come across to the guys I met as if I was.

So, once I was able to hold a mirror up to myself, see how what I was doing may be interpreted by him, I had a new way of behaving which proved very powerful both for my self confidence and it turns out in attracting a great guy!

 

Lesson Number 2: You Are More Attractive When THEY CALL YOU

In my ‘quest’ to be loved and in a committed relationship I ended up, often quite subconsciously, allowing myself to be too readily available. I quickly realised that texting or calling him first in the initial stages was a sure fire way to turn a guy off and that MEN LOVE TO CHASE. I learned the hard way, when you chase a guy, if you’re not careful, you can come across as desperate or needy. So, I had to learn a new way of showing a man that I knew what I wanted and wasn’t going to settle for less. I was valuable and he’d need to work for me if he wanted to catch me. So, I had to put into practice a whole new way of doing things that would show him I was a woman worth pursuing, and I did! I stopped texting and looking for answers about ‘us’, I got on with my life and allowed him to come to me, to work for me. This was his task and I knew if he was the right man, he’d take control and call.

 

Lesson Number 3: The Things A Woman Does That Make A Man Become Distant

I had found myself thinking that this relationship could be ‘The One’. Everything seemed to be going well, he was saying and doing all the right things, then bang, without warning he did a total ‘shut down’ and told me he had changed the way he felt about me.

What had I done? Only just the other night we were having a deep talk about our relationship and we seemed so close and as though things were starting to get serious together.

Sound familiar?

Once again, I needed to understand what had happened here. What had I done to make him want to back off?

Well, here’s the thing. The strange reality for us women is that the MORE WE TALK to try and get close the MORE DISTANT he becomes and wants to have his freedom!

It soon became obvious that men just don’t have the need to talk like us women do. They just know what they ‘feel’ when they’re with a woman, end of story. The easiest way to get a man to engage is just by DOING stuff together, NOT TALKING!

 

Lesson Number 4: A Relationship Will Always Be A Journey, Not A Destination And It Won’t Save You

Again, in my quest to be loved (blimey, this is all starting to sound a bit too familiar), I would be hoping each time I met a guy that he’d be ‘The One’, that I could finally relax and he’d simply love me for who I am. Even after the first kiss my friends would tease me that I’d be signing my surname as his and when should they buy a hat! Seems ludicrous I know but deep inside I had this desire TO KNOW what he was thinking and feeling about me.

How serious about me was he? I needed to know quickly so I could decide how much of myself to give. I didn’t want to be hurt again after all, I’d had enough pain and wasn’t sure I could face any more.

I quickly realised that in my search TO KNOW, I was in fact pushing men away. My fear of being lonely or rejected popped up all over the place in the things I’d do and say.

Realising I could NEVER KNOW how any relationship I’d be in would turn out, even if I was married, made me realise that I needed to find a way to LET GO and simply see it as a journey to enjoy.

If he wanted to join me on my journey, great, but if not, that was fine too as deep inside I knew the right man would.

 

Lesson Number 5: Men Aren’t Scared Of Commitment

OK, before you all throw tomatoes at me, just hear me out.

For so long I really thought that guys were just not able to commit, that it was all their fault and they were just driven by their D*CK!...

(Sometimes they still are of course)

They’d say one thing to get me into bed and then soon after decide that that was it.

Looking back I can see that I was allowing them to control me. My insecurities were making me weak and I wasn’t coming across as the INDEPENDENT, confident person I knew I was.

If guys were so scared of commitment, how come so many couples were getting married?

Hmmm, maybe I needed to look at myself again here? How was I killing the attraction so early and not letting him feel naturally attracted to me in his own good time?

I WAS TRYING TOO HARD to get him to like me and acting like the relationship was too serious too soon.

So here’s my tip……..

DON’T DO IT!

When I allowed myself to just have fun, relax and be playful with him without any need to know where the relatonshp was heading, it all fell into place.

Men aren’t scared of commitment, they’re scared of being in a relationship were there’s no fun, attraction or passion.

 

Lesson Number 6: How Being Feminine Is Hypnotic To A Man

Now, I was always a tom boy at school, wore jeans the whole time and had only one dress in my wardrobe that I wore to weddings. I never wore heels, after all they seemed a waste of money as I could hardly walk anywhere in them.

I was comfortable that way and a guy would just have to love me for who I was right?

WRONG!

One day I realised how much I like my men to be masculine, so didn’t it make sense that a masculine guy would want a woman to be feminine?

Of course! So I contacted my friend who was an image consultant, we went shopping (hard job but someone had to do it), discovered how great I looked in skirts, dresses, heels and accessories and how feminine it felt as well. I literally felt like a woman and my confidence to express my femininity increased as well.

By wearing clothes that expressed my femininity, I was also able to tap into the softer more vulnerable parts of me that would allow him to step up and take the masculine role. This meant we were both at our best and complimenting each other.

I can show you how to discover your true feminine side, from what to say to make a guy really ‘feel it’ for you to what to wear to make you feel fabulous.

It was time to put these lessons into action….

So after some serious soul searching and having ditched the old methods that were no longer working for me and identifying what I needed to do differently, I started to put together this new monthly dating advice programme…...

And you know what? It really worked!

Within a matter of months, I met an amazing guy whilst out with a friend in a local bar. After that first evening, I received a text from him the next morning and a call shortly afterwards. He wanted to see me, so we arranged a date a few days later.

We had a great time and I let him lead every step of the way.

In every instance, HE called me first. I have to admit to probably deleting about 50 text messages, but I stood firm and allowed him to pursue me.

Suddenly, after months of struggling and doing things the hard way, I had met an amazing guy!

It was finally clear where I’d been going wrong all this time.

When I met other single women and saw them struggling to understand men and where they were going wrong, I wanted to help because I know exactly how it feels to want that relationship and man in your life, feel as if you’re doing 'all the right things' and still not get anywhere.

It became obvious that dating can feel like a minefield at times. Our emotions, fears and worries can be all consuming and very often end up causing us to sabotage relationships unnecessarily.

So I decided to put together a fully comprehensive programme that would prove an entire supportive step by step approach to attracting and keeping a great guy.

 

By the time I was done completing the dating advice book, how to master online dating course and audio program and the fortnightly e-course I was surprised by the sheer volume of material I had to share.

I had documented year’s worth of experiences and knowledge and put into place strategies and tools for finding the right man and creating a happy and successful relationship.

I needed to add checklists and actions just to make all this material manageable.

That's when I realised just how many 'hidden gems' I had uncovered.

 

Here’s Just Some Of What You’re About To Learn:

 

The most FATAL mistakes nearly all women make that immediately scares men off (If you’re woman I’m almost sure you’ll have done these at some point)

 



Discover if you go straight into ‘Instant Relationship’ mode when you meet a guy and how to avoid having him run for the hills!

An effective way to discover what qualities your ideal man MUST have and how to recognise if he’s the right one for you early on. (Learn this and avoid the unnecessary heartache that comes from dating the wrong guy).

 



Learn if you are ready to attract your ideal man and what you need to do to become irresistible to him when he shows up

Discover how your emotions can deceive you into thinking a man is right for you when all of your friends are telling you he’s NOT!
Discover powerful ways to increase your self-confidence and say goodbye to your insecurities. (Self-confidence is CRUCIAL to being attractive to the right man, without it you’ll end up with the wrong guy or on your own)
Know how and when you may be self-sabotaging your relationship and ways to avoid it
Know the answers to when it’s OK and NOT OK to call him when you first start dating and how to have him pursue you
Want to know the REAL reason why you think men just want sex? All will be revealed and you’ll be able to tell if a guy is interested in just a casual or committed relationship
How to stop repeating past mistakes. Find out where your fears and insecurities might have been popping up subconsciously, causing you to make critical mistakes with men
Why a man pull’s away just as you are starting to feel close and how to avoid it. (This is one of the biggest causes of heartache for women and can be avoided)
An easy way to share your feelings with a man that makes him feel closer to you and see you as a woman he never wants to let go


Uncover your beliefs about yourself, men and dating to EXPOSE how these may have ‘leaked’ out without you really knowing




Plus so much more

I really have created a monthly step by step dating guide that gives you all the advice you need to make 2009 the year you meet a great man!

I’ll help you to finally break through the challenges that have prevented you from having a long, loving and successful relationship

 

So Here's An Overview Of EVERYTHING
That's Included In The Inner Circle
Dating Advice Membership

 

• Monthly comprehensive dating advice e-course. A clear step by step programme with examples, practical information, awareness exercises and action plans

• Fortnightly Live One-On-One Q & A With Sharon. You won’t be alone because you’ll have access to me every 2 weeks where you can call in and ask me any question or be coached by me personally for up to 15 minutes. Use me to get clear on whatever it is you need. I won’t give you a ‘standard’ response but we’ll work together to discover the answers that are true and personal to you (value £50) 

• Ask A Question By Email. I know how important it can be to get a quick answer to something that’s troubling you. Maybe you’ve just met a guy and you’re wondering whether to call or text him? Perhaps you’re just not sure where and how to meet a man? Maybe you’ve been dating a while and need to know where the relationship is going? Whatever you’re question don’t let it consume you and end up making the same critical mistakes. At any time you can email me up to 3 questions a month. I promise to answer them personally and aim to send a response within 48 business hours.

  By the end of our time together you'll know:
  
  
  • What's been keeping you single and lonely
  
  
  • How to identify the type of man that is ideal for you
  
  
  • Where to find him
  
  
  • How to bring out your feminine side
  
  
  • What NOT to say on first dates
  
  
  • What will compel him to want to be with you long term
  
  
  • How to have the confidence to talk to any man
  
  
  • How men think and how you may be coming across to him
  
  
  • How to express your feelings without have him running scared
  
  
  • How to get your needs met and know what his are
  
  
  • And much, much, much more!

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?

What would that be worth to you? Just think about that question for a moment and ask yourself again…

What would finding the man you’ll spend the rest of your life with be worth to you?

Well the good news is, he’s not far away and you have the power within you to attract him. I can even guarantee it!

But don’t take my word for it. Here’s a story from one of my clients…

"OK Sharon, I’m convinced, how much?"

Look, this isn't going to be cheap nor should it because this deals only with a very specific and specialised topic. This is strictly for those who are committed to learning about themselves and that is NOT for everyone so it merits being pricey. I hope you're thinking about a big number. You should be. This isn't some cheap dating advice membership programme on love and dating with nothing more than rehashed ideas from books you could easily get hold of on Amazon.

As a comparison - I'd make a wager with anyone (and win hands down) that having a great man in your life and having the skills to keep him loving you forever is the most important and valuable skill you’ll ever need to be happy. Think about it. Nothing changes until you take action. You may have already spent hundreds or even thousands on dates, outfits, internet or speed dating, but they are essentially useless to you unless you can master what’s been holding you back.

So How Much Would It Be Worth To You To Know All My Insider Secrets For Attracting And KEEPING An Amazing Man?

As I’ve already said. My original reason and part of my motivation for putting this programme together was to help other women have access to the critical information, coaching and support that has been out of reach for a lot of people for too long.

So I'm not going to charge you anywhere near the standard coaching rate of £97 an hour, but I'm also not going to put this material into the hands of anyone who doesn't see the immense value here. I'm not going to let it go cheaply - because, frankly, I know exactly what this information is worth and how much I sweated to put such a comprehensive programme together for you.

So I'm offering this dating advice membership program for just £47 per month

Now is this a lot of money?

Frankly, if you're someone who "gets it" you'll immediately jump at this bargain and sign up right away. However, if this price seems like a stretch for you let me mention a few points to consider...

There's no doubt you're going to spend way more than this going out on dates, buying new clothes, shoes or handbags for those dates. You’ll want to get your hair and nails done, have a facial or you’ll be joining several dating sites haphazardly winking in the hope of attracting someone.

If you look at it another way, your total membership comes down to just

£1.51 per day

That's less than it costs for a sandwich.

Do you really think there is a better dating advice programme you can invest a few pence or pounds a day into that can reward you so richly? I seriously doubt it.

My prediction is you'll find the programme so enriching that even if you just apply one of the strategies I cover you’ll see your relationships with men improve significantly. But there's still more...

Try It FREE For 30 Days...You’ve Nothing To Lose!

I'm inviting you to try my entire system for 30 days at my risk....

I'm not going to make a big deal of this. You get 30 days to see how the membership works for you for FREE. I’ll send everything to you. You can experience the coaching, e-course and use all the other products and services for members and if after 30 days you decide it's not for you, then simply unsubscribe to cancel your membership before the 30 day expires and you’ll not be charge a penny.

But if you do decide to stay as a member (as I'm confident you will), I'm going to be there alongside you, every step of the way, every month.

Is that fair?

I've done everything I can to make it as easy as possible for you to get your hands on this life and love transforming dating advice. Now it's up to you to grab this opportunity with both hands!

I'm offering you my complete programme that will make you visible and attractive to men, get them calling you, and then shows you exactly how to turn that first date into a lasting loving and happy relationship.

They’ll be no more guesswork, heartache and loneliness.

Just imagine, in a few short months from now meeting the guy that you’ll spend the rest of your life with.

Still not sure? Remember you’ve 30 days to see
what it can do for you for FREE and you can
unsubscribe at any time so...

You’ve nothing to lose.

I have a question for you...

Do you want 2010 to be the year you finally meet Mr Right once and for all?

Or do you want another 12 months to go by worrying about still being single or crying over the wrong guy?

Because investing in this monthly programme and applying the dating advice I give you, I GUARANTEE will help you find and keep a great man for good. The results that come will be REAL and long term.

The only question now is... will you take it?

This will be the BEST investment you’ve
ever made in yourself – Guaranteed!

P.S. You can continue with whatever you’ve been doing up until now...waiting, hoping or dating whoever comes along (and I guarantee that if you do the same things you’ll get the same results)

Or

You can make the decision to take responsibility for changing this area of your life right now and commit to developing yourself so that within a matter of months you will have the power to find the loving, happy relationship with a man you’ve always wanted and deserved.

P.P.S. If you don't make the decision to take responsibility for changing this area of your life right now, the chances are it will pass you by forever...

So...

Dating can be FUN, join me and I'll show you how!